How to Get What You Want
You already know what you want. The question is, do you know how to get it?
On How to Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok shows you how to navigate the moments at work that actually determine your career. The conversations, decisions, and situations where what you say and how you show up shapes your career growth, leadership presence, and professional advancement.
Because getting what you want isn’t about being louder or more aggressive. It’s about how you think, how you position yourself, and how you handle those moments at work.
And whether you call it that or not, that’s negotiation.
Not the kind that feels pushy or uncomfortable. The everyday kind you’re already in.
When you decide to speak up in a meeting
When you ask for an opportunity
When you handle workplace conflict
When you position your ideas and advocate for your value
Each week, Susie breaks down real workplace scenarios, communication strategies, and mindset shifts so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start getting what you want in your career and your life.
How to Get What You Want
Avoid a negotiation-hangover
Use Left/Right to seek, Home/End to jump to start or end. Hold shift to jump forward or backward.
Have you ever gotten a promotion, and felt like you could have asked for a higher compensation but didn't? Well, today I’m sharing this real-life story from one of my clients where he asked for more, despite being told many reasons why getting more wasn't possible.
It is so important to understand what our value is to be able to have confidence and advocate for ourselves. People so often settle down for things that aren’t really fair, and then end up getting more responsibilities and not enough compensation, these are the moments when you should stand up for yourself and ask for what you deserve.
A look at what I talked about:
[00:01:10] Asking for more when you get a promotion.
[00:01:25] One of my client’s stories.
[00:03:20] The reasons why you should get more.
[00:04:00] Using their arguments to your advantage.
[00:05:30] Don’t settle for the first thing they offer.
[00:06:02] Understanding your value and advocating for yourself.
[00:07:00] The feelings when you stand up for yourself.
[00:07:51] The key of negotiation - aha moment.
[00:08:44] Walking away satisfied knowing you did all you could.
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Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
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