How to Get What You Want
Your career isn’t built by waiting for someone to notice your value. It’s built by learning how to advocate for yourself with confidence.
You’ve been told your work will speak for itself. Yet despite doing everything asked of you—and more—you’re still feeling overlooked and uncertain about your next step. Leadership isn’t just about managing a team; it’s navigating the complexities of internal relationships and consistently advocating for your growth.
On Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok is your silent partner, empowering you with the mindset and tools to negotiate your career—and life—with intention.
Unlike podcasts that focus on climbing the ladder or hustle culture, this show is for women who want to own their careers authentically. You’ll learn practical strategies for everyday negotiations, from asking for what you deserve to confidently handling tough conversations. Because negotiation isn’t just for raises or promotions—it’s how you navigate every opportunity in your career and beyond.
Susie is a negotiation expert who understands the challenges of being in a male-dominated industry and the struggles women face when advocating for themselves. She’s helped countless professionals unlock their potential and will show you how to do the same.
If you’re ready to stop waiting for your career to happen to you and start creating the opportunities you want, hit follow and join Susie each week to build your confidence, advocate for yourself, and finally Get What You Want.
How to Get What You Want
Turning Opponents into Partners
What if your fiercest opponent could become your strongest ally? In this episode, I dive deep into the power of reframing conflicts, adopting a negotiator’s mindset, and building trust for lasting collaboration. Whether it’s a difficult colleague or a high-stakes negotiation, I’ll share stories, research, and actionable tips to help you turn confrontation into partnership. Let’s explore how small mindset shifts can create big breakthroughs!
In this episode, I'll cover:
1. How to reframe conflicts by shifting your mindset from “me against you” to “us against the problem.”
2. The importance of trust and reciprocity in fostering collaboration and building meaningful relationships.
3. Practical strategies to turn opponents into allies through curiosity, small wins, and active listening.
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Ready to continue your professional growth?
Here are a few resources for you:
- Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation
https://susietomenchok.com/buy-the-art-of-everyday-negotiation - Join my Newsletter: The Monday Minute
https://susietomenchok.com/email-list-opt-in - Hire me: Learn More About my Services
https://susietomenchok.com/servicespage - Connect with Me: Find me on LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/
